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Assalamolaykum...... Words cannot express my desire to have the companionship of a life long partner. To care for someone, and to be cared for by someone, is the best feeling in the world. Even though I have many close friends and family, a part of me is missing. Life is too short, and every second that goes by being single, is time I could be spending with a wife. Without her, I am like a missing piece to a puzzle. Anyone I know, any friends I have that are married, I make it a constant point to remind them of how lucky they are. Consider the astronomical odds of finding that one person of the billions of people that roam the earth that you want to spend the rest of your life with. The odds of finding someone you have an eternal bond and intense chemistry with is not even measurable. It truly is a miracle of God to bring two people together, or there are some incredibly lucky people. I think both statements are true. There's destiny of course, but God gave us minds and the ability to make choices, and ultimately that decides our fate. I like to believe that life nudges us in certain directions, and at some point you have to follow through on your own. I'm powered by this natural instinct to find my soul mate, and dedicate my life to making her happy. She's out there, and somehow, somewhere, the roads to our lives will meet. Patience in this case, is definitely a virtue. Now for the hard part, accurately describing myself. I'm a nice guy, the classic type. I like helping other people, doing what I can to make to bring a smile to someone. I'm kind, caring, sensitive (yes, I'll admit, Titanic made me cry), empathetic, a great listener, personable, confident, understanding, well read, intelligent, friendly, and romantic. One of those guys that thinks a lot; pondering and wondering about the past, and the future. There are also the life skills to make it through in this world like being dependable, reliable, etc... I'm very committed towards working together in a relationship, and accept and respect people for who they are and what they stand for. I'm a very simple mama's boy type person, life is about balance. Sometimes you have to be serious about life, and other times you have to enjoy it. And if you balance these properly, you'll succeed. I'm very open with my emotions and feelings. All I want is a peaceful simple happy life, and someone to share it with. Marriage requires a lot of dedication, no doubt about that. Humans are very complex individuals, millions of variables define who we are, and I think communication is the core fundamental foundation in a relationship. And when you have two hearts, and two minds working in cohesion like that, you now have a new single entity of one soul. Marriage to me is about living life together, sharing it, building a bond that lasts to eternity. It's about passion, and the rewards of making someone you love happy. I'm half Austrian/German half Pakistani, which is a unique perspective to grow up on life with. Most people identify themselves as one particular type, where as "hybrids" don't really have a single point of culture. So I wouldn't call myself a Pakistani Muslim, just simply a Muslim. Though I am quite liberal. Here's the low down on me. I'm 26, born in London, England (grew up in Canada since the age of 2). My father is a marine engineer from Pakistan, And my mom is a linguist from Austria (converted to Islam 25 years ago. As for career, I work as a Software Engineer, Web Master, Graphics Artist, and Systems Administrator (aka computer geek). I'm now living in Fremont, California (Silicon Valley), though my family is still in Ottawa. I'm 5'7", 170lbs, and born on June 24th, 1972, Brown eyes, 30 teeth (no cavities), dark brown hair. Heart rate 80bpm. Lung Capacity 2.0L. No preservatives, may contain water and/or caffeine (probably more caffeine than anything else :) ). I can cook! Kinda. Well, not really (I don't think what I make counts as edible). I like traveling, mountain biking, weight lifting, chess, bowling, music, movies, restaurants, and warm weather. I'm down for anything! There is only one thing I'm looking for, chemistry. Chemistry where it feels like so easy to just open yourself up and share all the things that are in your mind, and feel so comfortable expressing yourself. Where all your vibes are saying this is the one. I'd take a guess that a person I feel the vibe with would be a down to earth girl, easy going, intelligent, mature, open, sensitive, caring, independent, responsible, passionate, and about 22 to 26 years years old. Living and raised in North America. Take care.